You really have a wonderful life

If you need anything, particularly a cookie or some glittery lipgloss, send up a smoke signal. Everybody, please send "YOU RAWK, GIRLFRIEND" karma Ellenward.

That said: The only one who can ever own your heart is you. You can share it, and I think sharing your heart brings some of the greatest joys life has to offer, but you have to own it. A couple of months ago, I said something that made you think I misunderstood what you meant; in response, I wasn't sure you understood quite what I meant.

That's what I meant.

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